Lolita Wolf describes herself as a poly switch who plays pansexually. She is an activist who defends the rights of S/M practitioners, spreads the word about S/M, and helps the community grow and flourish. Yet, her goal remains "to have fun." Lolita has many specialties including bondage, impact play (of all sorts), hot wax, poly relationships, social skills, communication and negotiation, CBT, and more. Lolita has presented workshops for universities and organizations across the country, and she has authored two books: "CBT In A Nutshell" and "Spanking." She is an Emeritus Board Member of both the Eulenspiegel Society (TES) and Leather Leadership Conference, former Chair of Lesbian Sex Mafia, an honorary member of GMSMA, an associate member of New York boys of Leather, and she is active with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and Leather Pride Night. Lolita has received numerous awards including two Pantheon of Leather Community Service Awards, a Lifetime Achievement Award from the National Leather Association, the Vaughn Keith National Education Award from Black Rose, the Defenders NY Founders Award and the 2000 Centurion Award from the Leather Archives & Museum. A six year old Princess who lies about her age, Lolita manages to stir up trouble and get her own way (most of the time). She blogs about relationships, sex and BDSM/Leather as well as life in NYC on her website (LeatherYenta.com). We are very happy to welcome Lolita back to Thunder!

 

 

 

Hot Wax to the Max
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When speaking of wax play, we have learned that “Some like it hot!” In this comprehensive demonstration on “waxing” your partner, you will learn how to warm up your partner before encasing them and adding power and beauty to your scene. Lolita will also cover preparation, choosing the best wax, and choosing/making the best tools for use in your scene. And, of course, she will make sure that all aspects of etiquette are discussed. Lolita believes that knowing the techniques and appropriate safety information about this and every other scene, will allow you to enjoy these activities to their erotic max as well as insuring that your partners do the same. If you want to learn new and exciting ways to enjoy a hot wax scene, then you will certainly want to attend this class. As Lolita says with a smile, “We are going to pour it on!” And that she will!
 
Building Trust
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When we find a partner, decide to get into a relationship, or get married, all of us strive to achieve intimacy and create an awesome, even sacred bond with that one person. But as we all know, before such a potent understanding can be forged between adults, there needs to exist a high level of trust. Trust can be built up in a number of ways. In this seminar, taught by Lolita for the first time at Thunder, she will show us various ways to develop trust, build trust, and maintain it. Come, learn, and put to use the communication skills and honorable actions that go hand in hand on the road to complete and total trust in a relationship. If you truly want to make your relationship better and to create intimacy, then this seminar is one you won?t want to miss!